my mom told me that in high school she used to get boyfriends at the beginning of February so they had enough time to get her a valentines day gift and then break up with them the day after and just keep the gift and one day she told her parents about it and they made her keep her boyfriend at least until the end of February and so she did and that boy is now my dad



I think one of the most heart warming feelings is being with someone and them talking about the future. And I don’t mean marriage or kids. I mean them talking about going on vacation or to a concert in a few months or next year. And you just think ‘wow this person is planning for things months/years in advance’ and you realize wow, this person really likes me and my company and just wow.



Stop hating yourself. Try going one day without saying anything bad about yourself. Try complimenting yourself. Do it again. Buy yourself dinner. Put soft things against your skin. Listen to your favorite songs. Eat ice cream. Eat ice cream naked. You have to spend the rest of your life with you. You’re all you’ve got. Be kind, start loving yourself.